Modifying A Parenting Plan
I get many calls from parents wanting to change, or
modify, their parenting plan. The
problem lies in that their reason for the change may not meet the legal requirements
for a change to the parenting plan. In order to modify a parenting plan, there
must be a 1) substantial, 2) material, and 3) unanticipated change in circumstances
and
a showing that the modification is in the best interests of the child.
Parents think that just because a parenting plan is no
longer working for them, that is reason enough for a change. It may be, if you can get the other parent to
agree and both of you can come to a joint agreement for an amended parenting
plan. However, if the other parent does
not agree, and you are attempting to petition the court for a modification to the
parenting plan, the legal standard above must be met.
A remarriage, a new child, a new job, or a new move, are
typically not enough, unless there are unusual circumstances. The courts have usually ruled that these
circumstances are expected in life and are not unanticipated. It is definitely not enough that the other
parent is just being difficult. It is
best that you have an experienced
family law attorney by your side to advise you and determine if you meet the
legal standard. Also, you might be able
to utilize an attorney through some sort of alternative dispute resolution to
stay out of court and arrive at an amended parenting plan outside of court.
My best advise is to utilize an attorney from the beginning.
It seems that most of my calls from parents wanting to modify their parenting
plans are from parents that did not use an attorney in their divorce. They “did it themselves.” And now they are realizing all of the many
situations they did not think through very clearly and need help sorting
out. If you are going through a divorce
or need help with a modification, contact Heather Bryan Law
for your consultation today, online or at
863-825-5309.